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State of the Union

July 14, 2015

So, Her Grace and i have been doing our FLR for over 4 years now.  It’s had it’s ups and downs, but overall, it’s good.  We’re still on track, although we’ve got a great counselor who is kink-friendly, and really helping.  I’m still in chastity, 24/7.  We’ve started something where i get a full orgasm each month, and one ruined during the month.  I’m to keep a journal of how i’m feeling about it.  That’s private, to just Her Grace.

I’m going to try to start putting some of the more publicly available stuff here.  Please bear with me.


I’m back

March 16, 2015

From outerspace!  Not really, just been dealing with so much life lately.  But new, fun and interesting things have been happening in my FLR, and I think it’s time I start blogging about it again. 

Also, I have an actual keyboard and mouse that attach to my Android phone, so it’s about 1,000,000 times easier to type now!

8 Things Submissive Men Want From A Dominant Partner « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed

October 16, 2012 This is an incredibly accurate, concise essay on how a submissive wants to interact with his Domme in a relationship!

September 28, 2012

Let us know how it goes! i would love to get something like that for Her Grace!

Disciplinary management

August 31, 2012

So, with our eldest daughter moving back in, some of the fun and games need to be a little more discreet.

So, I installed some key hooks from Home Depot to keep things out of site from those who would be scarred for life to know the deepest, darkest secrets of their otherwise boring, vanilla parents.

This is what she sees when she walks in the room:


And this is what I see when Her Grace decides I need a little correction:


My latest creation

August 29, 2012

So, the Mikes Spikes are a torturous, heavy delight. Her Grace wanted to be able to have Her little boy clit subjected to them for much longer, and while doing housework. So, after a few missteps, i devised this solution. It is devilish, indeed.


Pictures of Pinky

August 27, 2012

Chaste Nikki requested a few pictures of Pinky. She is currently in Germany, getting some revisions from Dietmar at Steelworxx, who i highly recommend.

The cage was a little long for Her Grace’s tiny little boy-clit to live in, so, it its being shortened from 115mm to 75mm. The crossfire end cap gives a subby way more access to the Goddess’s property, so it is being replaced with the steel heart 2 style. We are also getting the penis plug fixing to hold everything in place. I had some problems with edema from having the PA fixing. I suspect that with the shorter tube, it may be possible to alleviate that. Finally, and this is the one that Her Grace is super excited about, they are going to drill and tap about 15 small holes all the way around the barrel of the tube to install the Mike’s Spikes sharp points that we got at JT’s Stockroom. We don’t currently have an ETA on that, but we how to get out back in time for Her Grace’s birthday trip at the end of September.

Until then, i am in the CB-6000s… Which is still a little long some days.

Enjoy the pictures!


peeking out

Ok, here are a few of the cage full on.


lace covered pinky

It looks so beautiful covered in my favorite lace panties!


a bit of swelling

A bit of swelling for Her Grace’s amusement.


Side view.


That’s all folks!